Rock on grandma and congrats! It is said owners find cars-Wranglers on the other hand find their owners! Suggest you read around the forum and play with your Jeep offroad totally stock for a bit-see what the Jeep tells you it needs on the trails you want to run, see what others in the trails run on their rigs.
2014 JKR Granite Crystal, 4.10 Auto
Pending: RK X Factor 2.5 Inch Lift, Artec Front and Rear Truss, Artec Rear LCA Mounts/Skids, Or Fab Crossmember, Rock Hard Gas/TC/Evap/Oil Skids, Nitto Trail Grapplers 37x12.5x17, Pro Comp 97 Series.