Got it done. The washers were too thin. Advanced Auto only had assortment packs with the thicker washers so I had to buy two packs of them to get it done. My wife was stellar in helping me bleed my brakes. Not bad for a blonde. Of course she did complain about how dirty the inside was. I got my laugh in watching her try to get up into the Jeep. She hasn't been in it since I had a 2" lift.
Anyway, the gap you see here wasn't there with the washers that came with the kit. The counter guy asked me if I tried teflon tape.
He says he had to do that on his F150 and it's been fine. Now I'm going to be paranoid everytime I see one in my rear view.