Ok guys went to advanced and got a rancho rs5450(I think) steering stabilizer (not dampner) for like 60 bucs and the problems completely gone. Just need to get it aligned and should be good to go. Not sure you guys running this lift but I must have been missing some instructions because it was not put together good at all. I was deff expecting for it to give more pictures and say washer here, washer there, more detail!! Also you can throw bolt on out the window you have to drill 5 holes! But its all on and looking good the front is sitting lower than I would like. The rear is a good inch above the front. Im thinking that being a soft top the front settled more because of the engine weight and the back just needs to get some trails on it to get it to settle. Thanks for the advice though, I plan to re-check tightness in a week or so and possibly add a spacer in the front soon.