So I didn't hear it feel anything in the relay...but I asked the other guy where he ended up putting his blue/white wire in the end when it all worked. This is where I have it at the moment
And on the other side of it there's another blue/white wire coming out in the corresponding slot. My directions say:
34) Find grey 10-way connector located under the I/P and near the top of the 100-way connector.
35) Cut blue/white wire free off the 10-way connector. Splice this wire to the blue/white wire from the overlay harness. Solder and insulate the splice.
Does that mean I just cut the one that was originally in there, and just connect it to the one from the overlay harness and neither of them go back in the connector? Is that what you were talking about closing the circuit?
Again thanks a bunch for the help.