i'm running a 2" OME lift (incl. two 0.5" spacers) with 33s on 15x8 steelies, which works fine for me as i don't need crazy flex space in extreme offroad situations, but is perhaps not the most ideal setup (but going above 3" adds some more complications, most prominently drivetrain angle issues and the related vibrations). here's a recent shot:
i'm not an expert, but i think the OME stuff is pretty solid, so i suggest you have a look at their 4" springs. i'm sure that would look amazing with the 16" rubicons and 33s, and everybody on this forum seems to love all OME kits. i think opinions tend to be more divided on RE.
as for tires, i can highly recommend the new goodyear wrangler duratracs! great tires with very low noise level, and they simply look great, especially on wranglers of course!