You should hook up with JRZMILITIA. He posts on here. I believe he's from Toms River.
Last time I went wheelin in the pines was off rt. 70 near Crestwood village. Drive past Lakehurst Naval base, make a left at the light for Crestwood Vilage, go about 1/2 mile to a real sharp right hand turn. The trail access is behind that guard rail.