I'm guessing the radio that you have doesn't have a SAT button on it?
In that case, you're probably better off replacing it with an RES+RSC (Media Center 130 with SAT button) or an REQ (Media Center 230/6 disc). Both can usually be found for sale on the forums for around $50-$150.
Then its just a case of adding the antenna which is about 70 bucks:
Sirius Satellite Radio Kit - Jeep Wrangler - Item # 82210466AB
For iPod/bluetooth first you need a uconnect kit:
Mopar UConnect Phone Bluetooth Wireless Hands Free Kit - Item # 8221175AB, 82211878, 82211877, 82211879 & 82207853AF
There are two types. One for the base RES radio without satellite (p/n 82211755AB, $366) and has a small control pad. The other is for the radio with satellite and uconnect buttons (p/n 82211878, $231). Both need to be parameterized into your vehicle by a dealer using the Starscan tool.
Then you need to add the iPod cable ($49):
iPod Integration (Models 2008-Up) - Item # 82210787AB & 82211263AB
So - in total you're probably looking at $231+$49+$70 for the MOPAR parts, then another $100 or so for a used radio with satellite built-in, then maybe another $50 for the starscan flash. Pricey, but that would be the 'factory' solution.