Thanks for the reply Jeep1029
Some good tips there, especially parking it in the sun to get the soft top nice and soft.
You've sort of got me on point 3. I was simply folding the top back accordion style, but a lot of research has pointed out that you have to pull the soft top folds toward the back of the jeep so that they don't get caught by the roofs folding arms, as this will slowly wear through it.
This also means that it hangs over the back of the jeep. I'm going to try find a picture of how to tuck it in. Its the far left and right corners that are my concern as it bunches up quite hard (need to try in the sun, but there is a wire that runs through the side that I want to avoid damaging). Spares are not cheap to come by in New Zealand lol
With the top hanging over the sides, stops me from moving onto point 4.
I'm sure once I've done this once, it will be painfully obvious how easy it is.
Once again, thanks for the reply and good tips.