well allow me to chime in as another happy BDS customer. i have the 4" short arm lift. i am very happy with the lift... BDS customer service is second to none. everytime i called those guys they answered all of my questions and made sure i wasn't buying more than i needed.
OP, if you're simply going for looks, I'd recommend some sort of BB. if down the road you're thinking some sort of offroading. then yes, I'd pull the trigger on a 3" BDS lift. they're easy to install, give you enough clearance to run 35's and plenty capable.