look into a 2' lift with a 1'BL and 1'MML with 32 or 33's.
that is what you want for a DD. and most on here will agree that this set up is not going to keep you from going where the 4' lift and 35's can go. between these two, its really all about the driver.
I have the DPG Ultimate kit. its my DD and its wonderful. I would not want anything larger. performs very well. on and off road.
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It is a little pricey. but well worth it. zone also makes pretty good SMALL lift kits.
take your time choosing. I spent a year driving and wheeling my Stock TJ looking for the right lift. and the experience I got wheeling it stock got me places my buddies with HUGE rigs cant. because I learned how to wheel it stock first. skill is the aim of the game.
thats just about it, if its a DD, keep it a smaller lift with no bigger than 33's.
and DONT RUSH INTO ANYTHING.
ENJOY YOUR JEEP!!