After doing the searches I have narrowed my list of upgrades to:
Ultimate TJ/LJ Wrangler Kit: **4-OME Shocks, 4-OME Coil Springs, (your choice of coil rates) JKS "Quicker" Disconnects, JKS 1.25" Body Lift, JKS 1" Motor Mount Spacers, JKS Adj. Track bar (front) JKS Adj. Track bar (rear), 2" Extended Bump stops (Front & rear) and JKS Adj Rear Swaybar End Links.
RE7003 - TJ/LJ 3.5" SUPER-FLEX SYSTEM from Rubicon Express with OME shocks
The 3.5-inch features new control arms with our Super-Flex™ spherical ball joints, replacement 3.5-inch lift springs extended bump stops, longer front brake lines and Gen II sway bar disconnects.
Rockhard Rear Bumber system
Which would you recommend from your experience, thanks.