yah dirk from dpg will help you out tremendously..
but as for 4-6'' of lift, you really dont need that much for 33s
i run 2'' front coils, jks acos set at 1.25'' at all 4 corners and a 1.25'' bodylift and my jeep sits perfectly for 33s.. no rubbing at all.. so about 3-3.5'' works great for 33s.. nowadays its not all about height.. people are trying for a LOW CENTER OF GRAVITY..
as for 16x10'' rims.. id recommend either a 15x8 or a 16x8.. i would not run a 10'' rim because it pushes the sidewalls out on the tires.. the main concern for a wider tire is not the rim width but the backspacing of the rim.. i run 33x12.5s on a 3.25'' backspaced rim
99 sahara :: 2'' coils (front), jks acos f&r, jks front trackbar, jks bl/mml, RE monotube shocks, hp30/d44, 33'' procomp mts, 15x8 eagle alloy 187s, hella optilux fogs, raingler nets, & more random junk::
06 charger r/t :: 5.7l hemi w/ flipstick, tinted windows, leather heated seats, 2 kenwood 12s =D my new baby ::