Thanks for the input but there is no videos i'm finding for a YJ.
I'm pretty sure I know how to do a TJ now, from the 100s of install videos for them.
I tried for about an hour yesterday and nothing was working... The door snaps wouldn't reach all the way, the REAR especially would not get the bar in the corners of the top. I even tried to pry it over the bar, thus the new little rip I got now