Getting a divorce - Page 2 - Jeep Wrangler Forum
Jeep Wrangler Forum

Go Back   Jeep Wrangler Forum > General Discussion Forums > Off-Topic

Join Wrangler Forum Today


Reply
 
Thread Tools

Please support our sponsors and let them know you heard about them on WranglerForum.com
Old 06-13-2013, 03:47 PM   #31
Jeeper
 
Senior Chief's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2013
Location: A Secure, Undisclosed Area
Posts: 2,794
Quote:
Originally Posted by jimbot View Post
That's a real bummer Senior Chief. You better hit the legal office ASAP. Your retirement is in jeopardy. You could end up with less than 50% of what you were expecting. It all depends on how long she's been a Navy wife.
I actually retired in 2005 after 23 years and met her in the civvy world. Appreciate the kind words. Hopefully this thread won't jinx anyone else...

Senior Chief is offline   Quote Quick Reply
Old 06-13-2013, 03:56 PM   #32
Jeeper
 
Join Date: Feb 2013
Posts: 204
Still hit the legal office if you got a Navy Base nearby. They won't be able to represent you, but should be able to let you know what steps you should be taking right now.

jimbot is offline   Quote Quick Reply
Old 06-13-2013, 04:01 PM   #33
Jeeper
 
Senior Chief's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2013
Location: A Secure, Undisclosed Area
Posts: 2,794
Quote:
Originally Posted by jimbot View Post
Still hit the legal office if you got a Navy Base nearby. They won't be able to represent you, but should be able to let you know what steps you should be taking right now.
Good advice indeed. No Navy base close by, but fortunately I have a few attorneys at the cigar bar I frequent. None old timer who's been practicing for 40 years said he'd walk me through.
Senior Chief is offline   Quote Quick Reply
Old 06-13-2013, 09:29 PM   #34
Commercial Member

WF Supporting Member
 
Wranglin4Life's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2013
Location: Maryland
Posts: 2,553
Sorry to hear about this man. Best of luck with everything!
__________________
Take a look at my handmade custom paracord grab handles & other handmade paracord items!

You Choose the colors!!

http://www.wranglerforum.com/f37/par...es-236090.html
Wranglin4Life is offline   Quote Quick Reply
Old 06-14-2013, 09:30 AM   #35
Jeeper
 
Senior Chief's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2013
Location: A Secure, Undisclosed Area
Posts: 2,794
Quote:
Originally Posted by Wranglin4Life View Post
Sorry to hear about this man. Best of luck with everything!
Thanks... Never felt more grateful for having done my "20" in the military. I've got a bit of income and medical, so even if this torpedoes my finances, it won't sink me...
Senior Chief is offline   Quote Quick Reply
Old 06-14-2013, 09:46 AM   #36
Ugly Supporting Member

WF Supporting Member
 
PecosRiver's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: San Jose, New Mexico
Posts: 1,543
Seeing too much of this lately. Two of my closest friends are in the same boat listed here, wives telling them they're leaving. One fell outta love with my friend and the other fell in love with her kitchen assistant and decided she was gay. I guess marriage is a disposable commodity these days too.
PecosRiver is offline   Quote Quick Reply
Old 06-14-2013, 10:00 AM   #37
Jeeper
 
Senior Chief's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2013
Location: A Secure, Undisclosed Area
Posts: 2,794
Quote:
Originally Posted by PecosRiver View Post
Seeing too much of this lately. Two of my closest friends are in the same boat listed here, wives telling them they're leaving. One fell outta love with my friend and the other fell in love with her kitchen assistant and decided she was gay. I guess marriage is a disposable commodity these days too.
Yep. Too damn easy to quit and take your toys home...
Senior Chief is offline   Quote Quick Reply
Old 06-21-2013, 09:11 PM   #38
Jeeper
 
JGreen06TJ's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2012
Posts: 620
I posted on here a few weeks before mine was final (June 5th). While it may seem like the end of the world to you now and you want to do whatever you can to make things better, sometimes there just isn't anything that can be done and one person trying to make it work will never get the job done if the other has already moved on. Not saying you shouldn't have a serious conversation and see if there's a chance to work things out, but don't lose yourself or get stuck in what might have been.

Despite having been separated for an extended period of time, the actual court proceeding was gut wrenching for both of us even though it only lasted 10-15 minutes. Lots of emotions at the end of 12 years together. But, its only been final two weeks and it just struck me yesterday that there is a night and day difference in the stress in my life. I wavered many times over whether or not this was the right path but in the end I think it was the only path for us.

Hang in there and take care of yourself. The stress will eat you up if you let it.

JGreen06TJ is offline   Quote Quick Reply
Reply

Quick Reply
Message:
Options

Register Now

In order to be able to post messages on the Jeep Wrangler Forum forums, you must first register.
Please enter your desired user name, your email address and other required details in the form below.
User Name:
If you do not want to register, fill this field only and the name will be used as user name for your post.
Password
Please enter a password for your user account. Note that passwords are case-sensitive.
Password:
Confirm Password:
Email Address
Please enter a valid email address for yourself.
Email Address:

Log-in

Human Verification

In order to verify that you are a human and not a spam bot, please enter the answer into the following box below based on the instructions contained in the graphic.



Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may post new threads
You may post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off




» Network Links
»Jeep Parts
» Featured Product

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 01:21 AM.



Jeep®, Wrangler, Liberty, Wagoneer, Cherokee, and Grand Cherokee are copyrighted and trademarked to Chrysler Motors LLC.
Wranglerforum.com is not in any way associated with the Chrysler Motors LLC