Get good at beer pong. Viola. The other side of the table Is like speed dating. Lol. Or you could bring chick friends to the party with you and have them do most of the work. Best bet?... Park your jeep in the living room.
BP is such an easy ticket in, its not even fair. I saw a cute girl, walked over and told her I needed a BP partner, and we played together all night.
Don't be afraid to approach women, get your confidence up and make a move. Don't come off as cocky though. Most women will talk back, unless they are (bad word with a b), and if that is the case, you don't want to be with them anyway.
If you want a quick lay, meeting girls at a party is the way to go...and the beer pong suggestion is spot on. lol
If you're looking for a meaningful relationship...the last thing I would do is try to get a girl's number at a party (especially playing beer pong) or a bar. Those typically aren't the kind of girls you want to keep around for long...
Of course, that's just my opinion.
"We don't build great brakes because we think you don't know how to drive, we build them for the guy on the road in front of you that doesn't." - Black Magic Brakes
well im kinda just testing the waters on a relationship i think im completely over the last one and im not a huge fan of the one night rodeo although fun not my style im just trying to see if i can even get a number anymore
There's a line between adventure and stupidity.
Originally Posted by frankenstein_yj
oh and when i find the guy who invented torx screws i have a big can of wup-ass for him
Be YOU bro. If your looking for a real girl. You don't wannaeet on false pretense and end up disappointing each other later. Nuck up and open a conversation. And if you get to an awkward moment simply say. It was nice meeting you, maybe I'll see you later tonight. And try again after you or she has had a little more to drink. You know, leave em wanting more.
Buy a zombie finger puppet and put it on your finger. If that doesn't start conversations, then she is not a good catch. Whoever I end up with will be fighting zombies by my side in the event of an apocalypse.
"It's better to die on your feet than live life on your knees."
coming from a girls point of view...it is all about confidence. if youre nervous stand near with a group of your friends. talk with your friends and listen to what she's saying to hers. wait til a topic comes up that youre comfortable joing in on. when i go to parties i usually dont talk long to the guys that just stand there and hit on me. it feels like theres to much pressure. i'd rather talk to a guy and have fun not wondering if he just wants to get laid.
Go buy a Jeep. When the weather warms up go to a party and find a goood lookin girl and be like sweety, what're you doin? You wanna go ride around with me and get topless? And when she starts to slap you in the face, duck it. Then be like "I was talking about in my Jeep. I thought maybe you'd want to take down the top and kick back the seats and look at the stars." Then ask if she really thought you'd disrespect a girl as purty as her.
If that doesn't work, ask her if she wants to get 'Stroked later and if she overreacts to that one as well, say you drive a Powerstroke...duhhh
I love my country, I love my guns, I love my family, I love the way it is now, and anybody that tries to change it has to come through me, that should be all of our attitudes, cause this is America
Be yourself. Be confident. Someone mentioned that girls are nervous too. Casual chat. Pour her beer for her and go slow so you can talk a little.
Alright, this comes out of the "secret book on girls"
If you want to put in some effort:
Talk to the girls friends and let them know your shyness. Let them know you've been trying to work up to talking with their friend and could THEY help YOU. If you be-friend them, then you are IN. Start with "Hey, could you girls help me..." Psycologists say that by starting with the phrase "Can you help me..." the person lets down their guard a little and you draw upon their kindness. Despite what people think, most people want to help other people.
Observe, build game plan, introduce, then listen. I did and look what my ugly ass got.
Originally Posted by john97TJ
One like this, I named him dick for his resemblance of Richard Nixon. I'm a pretty weird guy though, so it may not work for you.
Thats got to be an interesting conversation starter: "Hi, I'd like you to meet my friend dick..."
The advice I've been given for years is just be yourself and the right girl will come along. I keep hoping for sooner rather than later, but I'm still waiting on that.
Also, I don't make first impressions well... I've got a mind that could make a sailor blush, and that little voice in your head thats supposed to say "dont say that" went on vacation when I was in high school, and I haven't seen him since. But thankfully I'm good friends with a lot of guys that are suave with the ladies, so I get to make multiple impressions. Generally by the third or fourth time they realize I'm all bark and no bite, and we become friends, but crossing that "relationship" line is harder than the germans trying to reach Stalingrad in WWII...
Although if my friends break down in the middle of the night, or are stuck drunk at a bar, my phones almost always the first one to be called... Off topic I know, but gives a picture I believe...
What have we got?
We have one heavily armed Recreational Vehicle