My 1998 Jeep Wrangler needs a new engine control module. I bought one but I didn't get it from the dealer. So when I went to the dealer to see if they can flash it for meplease I was told they can only do 2003 or newer computers. I have called around all over my town and everyone is telling me the same thing "only the dealer can do that". Now I have no idea what im gonna do. Any ideas?