If you don't belong to a club, this may be a tough one. It's so much easier if you belong to a club. Scout out a scenic route or a place to go off roading. (or a scenic drive to a place to off road..best of both worlds), but decide what kind of run it will be...on road/off road/both. People are usually willing to put in 3-5 hours and donate up to $20 for a good cause. Plan your route, add in some stops (food & or potty breaks). Run the route yourself exactly as you plan it to see if it needs modified. Take a fellow jeeper to bounce ideas off of. Post on here or (sorry moderators) any other forums you look at. Post it on your social network (facebook/twitter etc). Friends of your friends may be Jeepers and want to help or just ride. I hope this helps a little. Anyone else please feel free to add to anything I've said here. Thoughts and prayers to Frank and your cousin Roxie.