"This happens to me everytime I fill her up. I have to barley squeeze the nozzle and it takes forever to fill it up and yet I still manage to get gas all over the place and me."
Try and see if you can jiggle it a little further in. Mine stops a few inches in and would do this. But if I turn the handle a little and jiggle it, it drops in another inch or so past the flap allowing it to fill up full bore on the trigger. Also clicks off on its own... Sometimes I have to really push my plate down and wiggle the bastard back out because it will be stuck. But, usually a turn to the side and a pull gets it back out ok.