I found a guy in craigslist a little closer to home. I'm in Texas, the reason I'm wondering how much it sticks out from being flush with the tailgate is because my spare is a 33 and hangs down pretty low. I'm worried the bumper and tire would rub or there wouldn't be enough room to fit the bumper in between the tire and jeep.
I am pretty sure that it will fit your 03. If you are close to me, you could look at it first and then decide. I would even let you test fit it to make sure everything is correct.
Price is whatever you are willing to pay. Make me a reasonable offer.