Maybe I'm speaking over my head, but my initial thought is that it really isn't possible. Well, might be possible, but a HUGE effort. And I mean GALACTIC. The ECM controls the PCM and the other controllers in the vehicle with the various CANs in the vehicle and I think they are all integrated- meaning that you've have to disable or bypass darn near every system in the vehicle. You'd have trouble codes out the wazoo, drivability would be suspect until after you resolved a slew of stuff, and then probably only get nominal results.
Back in my auto crossing days there was a thing called a Tec 3 I think that was a fuel management system that was fully programmable that might do something like this, but that was taking a less sophisticated system and making it more so, not the other way around.
Bottom line, if you wanna get away from the nannies, you'd probably need to go back to a TJ at a minimum. Now I could be wrong and there might be a system on the market, but again, think would be a monumental effort and far from plug and play.
Back in my auto crossing days there was a thing called a Tec 3 I think that was a fuel management system that was fully programmable that might do something like this, but that was taking a less sophisticated system and making it more so, not the other way around.
Bottom line, if you wanna get away from the nannies, you'd probably need to go back to a TJ at a minimum. Now I could be wrong and there might be a system on the market, but again, think would be a monumental effort and far from plug and play.