Think about how much it cost to put those "add ons" on. I would at least look for something that somebody else started to build...i.e. SYE already installed, lift that matches desired gear ratio for the tires you want to run. D44 rear vs. D35.
You can personalize it with your choice of bumpers, armor, etc. You will save a lot of cash if you get one already lifted etc.
Now, trying to find that "exact" one you are looking for will be a patience game. I waited and didn't get mine til the summer was almost over. Either that or get one as close to you want as a starting point even if you settle for less mods than you wanted.
If you have the cash, time, and desire, you can certainly build one up from stock (which is always fun).
On Craigslist, the good ones usually go pretty fast. I downlaoded a craigslist app that notified me every time one that met my parameters was listed.