I'm not sold on it being a head/ head gasket issue...
Have you tried to swap out the #4 spark plug with a plug from another cylinder to see if the misfire chases the plug? Just taking it out and looking at it won't tell you much. Unless it is covered in baked-on coolant or oil. You can compare it to other cylinders, but again, I doubt you will find anything conclusive.
Try swapping out the coil pack with another cylinder to see if it chases that.
Another thing you can try is to spray down the coil packs with a light mist of salt/water from a spray bottle. Salt water is more conductive than just water and can find voltage leaks better. Could be a coil housing, could be the wiring.
Make sure to hose all of it off with clean water when you are done.
Injector could be intermittently leaning out that cylinder. You can move those around too.
Watch the fuel trim numbers or each bank's O2 sensor value to see if the misfire is a lean misfire, or a rich mixture misfire from a leaking cylinder head/ gasket. Cracked or warped cylinder heads don't suck air in, but pull in coolant or oil and kill the flame, causing a misfire.
A bad crank sensor will also cause a false misfire reading, but usually its not that dead consistent with only one cylinder...
The next step would be to leak down check that cylinder, cold and hot.
If you could capture data from the misfire, that would help. Check to see if timing is being pulled from the knock sensor, or any big swings in a/f ratio, are there other cylinders with misfires, but didn't trip the CEL, etc.
I would imagine that these are the steps that a dealer tech would take before they would move forward on a cylinder head fix. On the other hand, the dealer would charge you to have their guy do these tests all over again anyway.....
Good luck and keep us posted.