Beth1949,
First off, the engine ECM and transmission TCM, (transmission control module) all work together for a long running, smooth operating engine/transmission relationship, for many, many miles. I assure you that the engineers at FCA and, any engineer at any other manufacturer, also has designed automatic protection against HUMAN ERROR.
The way your system is designed is this. If you're presently driving your automatic at freeway speed, say, around 60-65 mph, and you're in "D", you'll already be in 5th gear. If you bump that shifter to the left one time, you'll automatically enter into the manual shift mode.
When you do that, you'll see "4th" in the dash window. At that freeway speed, the engine and transmission controls WILL allow for that kind of downshift as there will be no detrimental effects. Your engine will only be running at a higher than needed RPM, that's all. But, the system will NOT ALLOW for you to bump it all the way down to 1st gear while at that freeway speed. It (the engine ECM and transmission controls know all this stuff waaaaaay in advance of any human mis-guided input)
Now, on the other side of the coin, there is something else that will happen. If you've manually shifted in to 4th as stated above, yes, it will enter 4th. But, if you do nothing else with that shifter and you come to a stop, the shifting criteria is STILL IN THE MANUAL MODE. But, even though you shifted into 4th, by coming to a stop, the transmission will automatically shift to 1st, in preparation for the next take off.
But, because you'd put it in the manual mode, it will take off in 1st, AND NOT UP SHIFT TO THE NEXT NEEDED GEARS! It will stay in 1st gear, no matter how long and hard you accelerate.
To get that shifter out of the manual mode, simply push and hold it to the right, for around 1.5 - 2 seconds and, you'll see the circled "D" appear in the dash window, indicating that you are now in the fully automatic mode. Just remember, no matter what gear you're in, at just about any speed, if you bump that shifter into the manual mode, it remains there and in that mode, 'till you take it out of it, manually. Hope this clears some questions up.
Scott