First of all, your approach is right. Any maker is going to have defects come off the line. But generally once you get past the head issue in 12 and very early '13, the 3.6 Pentastar is a beast. You don't really appreciate it until you overland with a mixed rig group and just power through stuff Toyota's etc struggle with.
Man-O-Man - you called it!
Background data - we retired in 2021. I retired from a position where I was certified to run the US power grid, wife was self-employed as a professional dog trainer. We have a little Toyota sports-car for hopping around town. We have the JEEP for doing JEEP-stuff, and we had a Ford E-350 1-Ton van set up to haul show dogs around the country. It could haul up to 4 Great Danes and the associated gear for the dogs and two people. When I retired, she retired too. We still have two Great Danes that have also earned retirement, earning #1 and#2 in the USA in 2018. The E-350 was finally showing signs of it's age (approaching 400,000 miles, take that chevy), so we traded it for new quartz countertops in the kitchen. Wife wanted another vehicle for herself. And through a friend of a friend we were offered a 2016 Toyota Tacoma TRD Off Road. It had 120,000 miles on it, and it had been garage-kept. But he had a new truck, and this one was now in the way. He said $20k if you take it away fast. In less than 24 hours we had it. The next day we were offered $30k for it, I think we did OK.
Now - on to the "Tale of the Tacoma"..........
We own both a 2015 JKU-R Hard Rock and a 2016 Toyota Tacoma TRD-OR 4x4. There is no comparison. Decide for yourself.
JEEP -- -- -- -TOYOTA.
3.6 V6. -- -- -3.5 V6.
5spd auto -- -6spd auto.
4.10 axles -- -3.9 axles.
35" tires -- -- 31" tires.
Just looking at the above data one would give the Toyota the advantage. More transmission gears and smaller tires should work better, especially for acceleration, torque to the ground and towing. One would be wrong. To further set the stage, the Jeep is always loaded with a few hundred pounds of gear. The Tacoma is mostly relatively empty.
The #1 issue with the Tacoma is that the motor has no low-end power. Out on the highway when going up the slightest incline, the Jeep will pull it easy in top gear at 2000 to 2500 RPM. On the same incline the Tacoma will downshift one or two gears and spin the motor at 3500 to 4000 RPM for the same incline.
#2 - The Jeep will pick a gear and stay with it unless a downshift is necessary. The Tacoma will not pick a gear.... constantly shifting UP-DOWN-UP-DOWN-UP-DOWN..... most annoying.
#3 - the Jeep has a hood and fenders that taper lower and narrower towards the front and with lowered fenders allows a fair view of the trail ahead when climbing a hill. And the Rubicon seat can be "Jacked-up higher" for an even better view. Not the Tacoma. The seating position is lower than the Jeep, is limited in adjustment, and cannot be "raised" any higher. And that hood-fender design is like the deck of a friggin Aircraft Carrier. Even sitting on a thick cushion, the forward visibility is severely limited.
#4 - who would expect a Toyota anything to get worse fuel economy than a Jeep Wrangler? Guess what. The JKU-R best the TRD-OR consistently by 1 to 3 MPG. Even when towing our Overland Trailer the JKU-R is nearly as good as the TRD-OR is empty.
#5 - WHO STILL USES DRUM-BRAKES ??? Toyota Tacoma, that's who. Rear axle is drum brakes! Yech.....
#6 - I admit that in Far West Texas we have some heat. We've had like 60 days over 100° F (38° C). The little Toyota sports car does best, probably because of the smaller cabin and windows. The JKU is next, and does pretty well. The Tacoma A/C system just flat sucks! Starting mid-morning, you need to run the A/C on MAX to cool the cabin. Once cooled, it sort of keeps up. By mid-afternoon it is struggling even so. And if you park it to go shopping or something, then go out after it has baked in the sun for a while, just be ready for about 30 minutes of misery until the A/C starts to get things cool again. SUCKS is just a polite word for how I really feel!
In fairness I have to say that the Tacoma does one thing better than the Jeep. It can haul a bed full of trash to the dump. Even if the Jeep were empty of all cargo and with the seat folded down it still cannot carry what the Tacoma can carry.
The bottom line is that my wife loves it. It was love at first sight, she said straight up she wanted it even before we knew what we now know. She loves the seats, she loves the driving position, she loves the stereo, she loves the color, she loves that it can haul her two Great Danes to the vet, can haul 100-pounds of dog food..... so it isn't going anywhere. We initially hoped it could take some of the load off the Jeep where the off-road capability wasn't needed when camping. The rear suspension is totally incapable of towing our trailer even if the motor were up to it.
We understand that for about $500 we can get the Tacoma's motor "retuned" to perform better. And yes, we can sink a few thousand $$$$ into the suspension and make it work. We've decided instead to go ahead and wear out this Jeep, then get a new one when the Hurricane motor becomes available. We just came home from a 12 national park in 24 days camping trip. The Jeep is still running strong.......